Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

I watched this movie because Mark Ruffalo’s in it (as Stan) and now i remember my first blog which i can’t open (google issue) how sad! lolz I never expected I would enjoy this movie because it’s confusing and boring at the beginning(don’t watch this if you just woke up)you’d find yourself halfway asleep again! ‘watched it for the third time last night (because of ..Stan lolz) well, anyways ..

Jim as Joel, I guess every man is like him though you wouldn’t see it on the surface. Who would want to waste good memories right? When a relationship hits that unfortunate moment where it all seems to be breaking down, we,  seem to instantly draw ourselves to the negative aspects of that person, as Joel did, in an attempt of sorts to make everything right within our mind.It’s not what is right in front of us that should define a relationship; it is the memories themselves and the experiences of the two individuals.

As Joseph Kastner said:

It happens to both the best and worst of us at some time in our lives. Love . If you haven’t experienced this yet just wait, you will. It is inevitable that at some time in our journey through life that we will come across someone that fascinates us so profoundly that we feel as though we could spend the rest of our lives with this magnetic individual. There is no exact science to the concept of love. Many believe that the idea of love goes beyond the reasonable or the logical to a more diverse level of the illogical, irrational, and the unreasonable. Why is it that we find ourselves attracted to people that, on the surface, seem as though they would never be compatible with our own lifestyle? Why is it that when we do fall in love with a certain individual and think at first that this is a perfect match, we find over time that less tolerable marks are more frequent on the surface? And why is it that we overlook some individuals that, although at first there is no real ‘love connection’ per say, we seem to have a somewhat pure liking for someone and that it takes us longer then it should to see that person for who they really are to us? Love is a complicated subject that can’t be taught, it can only be experienced for what it is . utterly confusing and yet at the same time completely fulfilling.

Eternal Sunshine promotes the ideology of living within the present and letting the course of the matter play out as it may. If we all relied on nerves and logic, would anyone really fall in love?  

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/me dialling eraser guys lolz 

Grazed Knees

I’m trying not to stare, it’s too late
The blankets over there, if you like
I’m broken and I’m colder than hell
I should’ve said I’d not come back here

Your breakfast will get cold
I really have to go

It’s easier to lie and be safe
Time and time again I’m half stalled
One giant leap of faith is easy
When everyone you ask is so sure

Just give a second thought
What if we don’t get caught

Just say you love me now
And forget this whole row
Just save your energy
For making up with me

by : Snow Patrol

08 Grazed Knees (Snow Patrol)